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peakpenguins t1_iuk3vny wrote

Do you sleep like that all night?? My husband and I generally spoon for a while as we're falling asleep and then turn over into whatever position we find comfortable for ourselves.

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Henri_979 t1_iuk42uh wrote

Yeah we do. She tells me that she likes it and I love waking up to to having her in my arm. :D

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peakpenguins t1_iuk4jud wrote

Crazy, the fact that you're both people who can sleep in the same position all night long is absolutely wild to me. Lol

Understandable that your am feels weird though, and will probably get worse over time. I've literally fucked up my shoulder so bad by sleeping on one side that I couldn't move it for a few days and had to go to urgent care over it.

I would look on Amazon or elsewhere under "cuddle pillow" and see if you can find something that fits with the way you guys sleep and can take some of the pressure off your arm. I'd also consider switching sides regularly.

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