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PeskyPenguin83 t1_iuk0k0w wrote

So he was happy to see his female gay friend smile, possibly because she has been through something and barely smiles?

Did you ask the relevance behind it? Or just jumped to conclusions?

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Existing-Side-4977 OP t1_iuk0rzm wrote

I just jumped to conclusions, I try to be understanding but don't know why I did jump to one😓

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PeskyPenguin83 t1_iuk17av wrote

Your own insecurities is a you problem, you should work on that, if you can't, don't be with anyone because all you're going to do is hurt 2 people, one being yourself.

However, this is not that major, just say sorry, ask him why her smiling was important, ask if she is ok.. You might find out your boyfriend is just being supportive of a friend.

The only slight downside I guess is, you have been together for over a year, if his friend is going through something, usually your partner would share minor details at some point.

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