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Kind_Fishing3821 t1_iuk1151 wrote

So honestly, have you had to worry about him doing anything like cheating or lying before? If not then you should trust him, something us guys always struggle with is being called a lier when we haven't done anything. Another thing is have that communication, tell him "next time you message her or anyone else like that and it's harmless, tell me about it immediately. If you're lying about it we will have to talk about eachothers respect and trust." It sucks yes but it's worth the conversation

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Existing-Side-4977 OP t1_iuk17yp wrote

No, I've always trusted him:) Thank you for the advice!

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Kind_Fishing3821 t1_iuk1riv wrote

Of course I'm going through it myself wjere im in your bf shoes. Except I haven't talked to anyone or anything she just thinks I'm lying so been slowly fixing with pretty much what im telling you, just remember don't get angry and talk, if either of you get mad seperate and cool down then finish talking

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Existing-Side-4977 OP t1_iuk1v74 wrote

Seeing it from another POV does help, thank you:)

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Kind_Fishing3821 t1_iuk20gk wrote

No problem happy to help I'm giving the advice my grandfather gave to me before he passed 😊

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