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Traditional_Fortune6 t1_iuk8xbi wrote

Reply to comment by throwawayacct199230 in How can I (27F) move forward? by throwawayacct199230

There's no telling how deeply he feels for you or why he's on the app. There's no point speculating because you'll drive yourself crazy.

If you really want to be his friend, you have to be prepared to watch him date other people. Are you up for that?

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throwawayacct199230 OP t1_iuk9olq wrote

It is going to be really difficult to watch him date other people, but I am also not ready to loose him. I think I put this guy on a high pedestal and I can't seem to let him come down from it.

I guess I just have to give it a try and see how it is being friends with him. If it is too painful then I'll have to cut it off for my own mental well-being.

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Traditional_Fortune6 t1_iukafva wrote

Be sure to watch yourself. Really know when to cut it off.

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throwawayacct199230 OP t1_iukazbh wrote

I usually try to see the good in people, and I think I will struggling cutting it off with him. But I think therapy will help me. Thank you so much!

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