BF sexted his cousin

Submitted by HeadacheRelief1 t3_yi5566 in relationship_advice

I am shocked. I dated my ex-boyfriend for two years, and today I found a five-year-old conversation between him and his cousin implying that they sexted at some point. A year ago, my ex and I ran across his cousin at a grocery store, but the encounter was unusual. She came up to him and hugged him, and said hi without ever looking toward me or acknowledging me. I didn't know who she was until she left, and I asked my ex who she was. After he said she was his cousin, I didn't think much of it. However, he mentioned recently that the same cousin went to his job and that they have been talking since then. I got a weird gut feeling, so I went through his Snapchat conversations. I found his cousin's chat, and I realized that it was from 2017-2018. After going through it, the texts implied that she had sent him nudes before and he asked her for more, but she said no because they were cousins and that was weird. At that time they were about 15-16 years old they are now 20. I am truly devastated and disgusted. Even though the conversation is 5 years old and I did not know him at the time there is no way I will ever see him the same.

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YohnWood14 t1_iuh6psb wrote

Why do I feel like the girl is definitely not his cousin

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HeadacheRelief1 OP t1_iuh74a7 wrote

I did my own research and turns out they actually are cousins. Her mom is his dads sister. And they even call each other cousin in the conversation.

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Andromeda491 t1_iuhl6nd wrote

Wait is he an ex or a current bf?

Are you looking for advice here or just venting?

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metooneither t1_iuhi470 wrote

First cousins? Doesn’t matter how long ago it was. That’s not okay. It’s best to be done with the relationship.

I would also bet that you didn’t get the truth

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