It vary concerning if he is getting angry during a normal convo. What is the subject about ? Is the same subject set his temp off?

Now about sex maybe you should switch the order of things. Sure you are thinking what am I saying …. Designed it that you get your orgasm first…

So let say he want you to give him fallatio he has to go down on you and give you cunnilingus first.

Button line is if you two keep arguing and it cause long term stress it should be broken up