Submitted by MikeGaga12 t3_yimjax in relationship_advice
My gf of 4 months has an unusually close relationship with her parents, like a girl half her age. They casually walk in on her when she's using the bathroom, or taking a shower, or changing clothes, things that I find weird. Anyway, the thing is a couple of days ago I saw my gf and her mom kiss on the lips as they were saying goodbye. I later found out that this happens with her dad as well. I've been in a crappy mood since. I thought that these kind of kisses were something special between me and her, and it was nice knowing that I'm the only one she does this with (at the present). I am upset and bothered by this quite a lot. I told her how I feel, and she said that she won't risk upsetting her parents for the sake of a 4 month relationship. I get that, I have no right to tell her how to behave around her parents. But I wish she tried to find a compromise instead of shutting me off right away. I fear I may be the toxic one here, but I don't think I will ever be ok with this thing.
peakpenguins t1_iujdbt7 wrote
>but I don't think I will ever be ok with this thing.
Then it's time to move on.