So I'm 22 and I'm sleeping with this guy (28) and we are kinda romantic and lovey with each other in bed but we're not dating. We both talked about keeping whatever we have lowkey and off social media including a future relationship coz we believe in the evil eye. Anyway, so yesterday he posted a headless picture of us with his arms around me on his snapchat stories but deleted it the next day. What does this mean? Is he trying to tell everyone he's into me or that we're seeing each other? Or am I reading into this too much? I really don't understand men.

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UKNZ007Tubbs t1_iugkywr wrote on October 31, 2022 at 3:57 AM

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You do realise that Snapchat stories can have an automatic timer right? So that they are only visible for 12/24 hours?

lilnuggetwarrior OP t1_iugmyba wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:18 AM

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Replying to UKNZ007Tubbs (#370,228)

I do but he deleted it before that.

imjustme8390 t1_iugo0vr wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:30 AM

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Why don't u ask him why he deleted it. It's probably not as complex as you're making it

lilnuggetwarrior OP t1_iugovab wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:40 AM

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Replying to imjustme8390 (#371,127)

Kinda don't want him to think I'm bothered by it, but I am. I don't want him to think I'm obsessed with him. I am, but I don't wanna scare him off

Honest-Illusions t1_iugq8lk wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:56 AM

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Sorry, but he doesn't want people to know he is seeing you. You are only a side piece for him. He is looking for a real relationship with someone else.

UKNZ007Tubbs t1_iugrf5b wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:11 AM

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Replying to lilnuggetwarrior (#370,819)

You can also set it to delete after viewing.

Also you say you decided to keep it off social media, so maybe he deleted it (if it was on purpose) because he realised that he shouldn’t have posted anything at all to honour your feelings.

imjustme8390 t1_iuh69mb wrote on October 31, 2022 at 8:51 AM

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Replying to lilnuggetwarrior (#371,389)

instead of pretending it doesn't bother you, you would feel much better knowing the truth.

AnnasAnonymous t1_iuhqcom wrote on October 31, 2022 at 12:53 PM

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Maybe wanted to make someone jealous? But either way: don't snpachat stories automatically disappear after 24h?