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javierthegoat_ OP t1_iujgm9l wrote

Reply to comment by oiler1996 in GF (23F) comes to me drunk and has some words to say by javierthegoat_

that’s what i was thinking too. i told her a break is just an excuse to do other stuff, and she got offended by that. she was texting me throughout the night and i also suggested she leaves her friends so we can fix the relationship since it’s been rocky but she declined and said she didn’t want to disappoint her friends. it seems all bad, and everything when you think about it. ever since then ive been feeling distant from her & the connection isn’t there

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oiler1996 t1_iujjarb wrote

Dude i know it sucks to lose someone who you care about but look at the behaviour she presented you with, a break for girls night is her wanting to have a one night stand and cheat without it being labeled as cheating. She didnt want to disappoint her friends but she is fine with disrespecting you and being rude to you. She throw the promise ring at you, thats not something that someone does if they love you, she knew what she was doing the whole time and choose to do it, its not a good idea to take her back. Its only a matter of time till this happens again and she is disrespectful again. It sucks but its best to dump her and move on. She probably did something on girls night she regrets but she will never tell you, dont take someone back who doesnt treat you proper

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javierthegoat_ OP t1_iujkatg wrote

thanks man. i knew that’s what i had to do but i just needed someone else to say it

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oiler1996 t1_iujkka8 wrote

No problem man, good luck, go find someone who treats you right

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