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She’s done with you. Just let her go, she’s made it clear she’s not interested.

Why might she not reply?

Because you’re an ex, your relationship ended 2 years ago, stop trying to reach out she clearly wants nothing to do with you and to move on with her life, I’d suggest you start trying to do the same.

Sometimes you just have to cut someone out of your life and move on. This requires you to steel yourself against being warm, open or kind to someone - especially if there’s not going to be a return on that investment. Sounds like she did that to you, finally. Move on dude.

I did, i've been with my current girlfriend since we broke up almost. I just don't understand why she would ignore like that, i was just trying to wish her well

I have moved on, been with my current gf since we broke up almost

I don’t understand why you’d want to reach out to an ex at all unless there were children involved or legal issues to sort out. You’re her ex, just leave her alone.

I guess i was hoping to catch up. I miss her sometimes, just wanted to know she is doing well.

She doesn't miss you. Leave her alone.

I still don’t fully understand why you’d really care, especially if you’ve moved on, but maybe that’s just me.

Just take this as a hint that she doesn’t want anything more to do with you, get rid of her number and let her live her life.

Stop hanging on to your ex. You left her for another woman and you’re still with that woman, why would she want anything to do with you? Don’t try to reach out anymore and take the hint.

I didnt leave her for another woman. She was always mad at me for talking to female friends while I was having a depressive episode. My current girlfriend was there for me during it and i didn't start dating her until after I broke up with my ex

So it was emotional cheating. Leave her alone.

I never ever respond to exes. It’s weird that you expect a response.

Why don't you?

She doesn't owe you a hello.

You broke up with her because of your mental health and started seeing someone right after the breakup.

You mentioned her being a bit controlling about female friends and then go on to say that you broke up a few times and got back together but not the last time because you started seeing a female friend right after the break up....

If this happened to me, I'd feel really betrayed and pissed off.

Don't expect anything from her and don't text her. You can reminisce but if she doesn't want anything to do with you, leave her alone.

Because I’ve moved on

Because she doesn't want to talk to you?

Why would you text someone who flipped you off the last time you saw her. She probably thinks you are stalking her.

Leave her alone.

I’d just leave her alone. She clearly doesn’t want anything to do with you.

I would have second thoughts in your girlfriend's place about the relationship if you are still so obsessed with your ex.

I'm not obsessed with her lol i'm just surprised why she wouldn't respond

Why would she need to respond so badly, especially if there is nothing important to talk about?

I'm just surprised. I figured she'd reply back with saying she's good or wonderd how I'm doing or... something. I don't really know tbh.

you have boundary issues, leave her alone

After warning your girlfriend against you and flipping you off?