Man walked up to me and the store and said I was beautiful. Is it overreacting to be bothered by it?
Submitted by Lucky_Daikon_95 t3_yiltpj in relationship_advice
What the title says. I was in the store, looking for Halloween treats, when a guy I had walked past earlier walked up to me again and said, "Excuse me? I just wanted to tell you that you are very beautiful." I said thank you and he walked away.
Like. I feel guys pull "innocent" moves like this so they can't be called out on their creepy behavior, because why else would you need to come up and tell me that? Do you get off on making women uncomfortable?
And I think I'm attractive enough, but even I don't think I'm "very beautiful." You're just being horny and weird, stop it.
Or, is it true: am I just overreacting?
davev9365720263 t1_iujacmg wrote
You are overreacting. He came up, paid you a compliment, you thanked him, and he left.
Why are you uncomfortable receiving a compliment that receiving one makes you uncomfortable and you deem it creepy?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You don't think you are very beautiful but he did. And, he told you.