Submitted by throwAway7h2g t3_yis4qa in relationship_advice
my fiance(26F) and I have been together for 8 years. I've recently been thinking about the big picture of things. I pretty much proposed to her because she had pressured me into it, now that I have sat down and really thought about it, I don't think I want to go through with it anymore. She is a really genuine and good person, but I don't think she would make a good wife for me because of the following reasons :
- she is extremely lazy, doesn't do anything ( work, study) she is financially completely reliant on me.
- I don't feel very sexually attracted to her anymore
- we do not share any single passion, interests etc ..
I frankly don't know how we stayed together this long all things considered. My marriage is planned in 11 months, I dont want to get married but at the same time I feel guilty because all this time we spent together ( in almost every fight she tells me that she lost her "prime" years with me) I wanted to break up a lot of times but I couldn't because I feel sorry for her, I really don't know what to do
Tldr; marriage is planned in 11 months, don't want to get through with it and don't know what to do. Ps: sorry for the bad English, not a native speaker
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