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Ok-Prune-3952 t1_iui29jn wrote

How is it you were together for years and did not know? To answer your question…absolutely tell him.

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J_P_3_ t1_iui2np6 wrote

Some people are excellent, calculated liars. I realised when she couldn’t keep up her lies and began to slip up. Only being able to see me at certain times, disappearing recently etc.

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Ok-Prune-3952 t1_iui373s wrote

I hear you on the liar thing. It is mind boggling. You absolutely should tell him. She cheated on him for YEARS.

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Sbbart62 t1_iuigisf wrote

I get that, and it’s not the first time I’ve heard of someone doing this, but it always comes down to the time commitment for me. I don’t understand how it could work out. Maybe it’s because after somewhere around the two year mark, my now wife and I were pretty much living together and rarely apart. I cannot imagine how I could have been gone long enough to satisfy the requirements of another whole-ass relationship while still keeping my original SO mollified lol.

Is it like a 3 days on, 4 days off with the other person sort of deal? Crazy!

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