J_P_3_ t1_iui2np6 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 2:29 PM

Reply to comment by Ok-Prune-3952 in I (28M) found out my partner of 2 years (30F) has a long term relationship with another man and I have been the side piece. Do I tell her ‘real’ partner? by [deleted]

Some people are excellent, calculated liars. I realised when she couldn’t keep up her lies and began to slip up. Only being able to see me at certain times, disappearing recently etc.

Ok-Prune-3952 t1_iui373s wrote on October 31, 2022 at 2:33 PM

I hear you on the liar thing. It is mind boggling. You absolutely should tell him. She cheated on him for YEARS.

Sbbart62 t1_iuigisf wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:04 PM

I get that, and it’s not the first time I’ve heard of someone doing this, but it always comes down to the time commitment for me. I don’t understand how it could work out. Maybe it’s because after somewhere around the two year mark, my now wife and I were pretty much living together and rarely apart. I cannot imagine how I could have been gone long enough to satisfy the requirements of another whole-ass relationship while still keeping my original SO mollified lol.

Is it like a 3 days on, 4 days off with the other person sort of deal? Crazy!