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ReachTheSky t1_iydz1c4 wrote

You should handle this situation by completely removing yourself from her life and moving on. Honestly, that should have been your first move. I'm not sure why you decided to continue sleeping together.

Taking breaks and "playing it in the middle" hardly ever work. If there's one thing that should be simple about a relationship, it should be that status of it. You're either in it 100% or you're not in it at all. If you can't weather the smaller issues that come up in the dating phase, you pretty much have no chance at tackling on larger issues later on in life.

As for the other guy, don't try to compete with him. Competing against a third party for her affection is like screaming "I have no self respect" in her face.

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uhnewbie0203 t1_iye3qty wrote

Do you think it’s even worth the “I’m done here, I deserve better than what you’re doing to me” talk? Or should I just disappear?

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ReachTheSky t1_iye4tny wrote

Statements like that will lead to an argument. If you have to say something, it should be about yourself and how you're feeling, not her or how she's treating you.

"Honestly, I just don't feel like we're a good fit anymore and don't want to continue pursuing anything. I wish you the best of luck." Then promptly block.

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