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McSuzy t1_iyemel5 wrote

Tell him what?

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Outrageous_Brush_214 OP t1_iyemkz9 wrote

That I have a gf Just worried about his response Ik it sounds stupid

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McSuzy t1_iyensbr wrote

It is not necessarily stupid but I am trying to figure out what you need to tell him. Your concern leads me to believe that you think he will not want you to have a girlfriend, so the question really is: what does having a girlfriend mean at your age and stage.

If you are taking her on dates and having her over to visit, it should be quite obvious to him that you have a girlfriend. If that is not happening and you just see each other at school or something there may be no reason to say anything.

Can you explain more about your age, her age, how you know one another, and how often you see her?

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Outrageous_Brush_214 OP t1_iyenznz wrote

I see her everyday and we both 14, most of the times I see her on a weekend also been together 2 months

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McSuzy t1_iyeox6k wrote

OK so when you go to see her this weekend, just say: I'm going to see Sarah now. If he asks how you know her or what the relationship is just say that she is your girlfriend.

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