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rosesandkittens5 OP t1_iyevcwf wrote

Reply to comment by Intheboxalready in My son (7m) isn’t my husband’s(29m) and I (27f) don’t know who to talk to by rosesandkittens5

He’s happy and in love things are complicated and I’m trying to find a way to make it stick the way it is

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Intheboxalready t1_iyevu6u wrote

He's happy because he is believing a lie. He believes you are faithful and trustworthy........you are neither of those things. You are a piece of shit and he should know.

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rosesandkittens5 OP t1_iyewyej wrote

Please no the first time was when I was at the start of our relationship and weren’t even properly together. I just got pregnant and he thought our son was his and that happened. Now the time that my daughter was conceived I was with a person I loved in the past a lot but couldn’t be with so it was a long time coming really

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VariationX7 t1_iyey8vp wrote

You're even trying to justify your cheating? You really have no remorse at all, you are horrible, truly horrible. " It was a long time coming" I can't. If you truly have any form of love for your husband or any decency left in you, you tell him the truth, but I doubt you will

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rosesandkittens5 OP t1_iyeyrih wrote

Yes because it was a long time coming because it was with someone I’ve loved my whole life

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VariationX7 t1_iyezbec wrote

And that means you can just cheat? It isn't a long time coming when you're in monogamous relationship, tell your husband the truth and go be with that guy then. You show no accountability, no remorse for you actions, no feeling sorry for your husband that he is raising children that aren't his and living a lie. You're beyond help, hope karma slaps you back.

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Intheboxalready t1_iyexr1u wrote

Tell your husband that. He deserves to make a choice based on the truth...don't steal that from him too.

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VariationX7 t1_iyevtwd wrote

He is in love because he doesn't know the real you, he is love who he thinks you are not the deceitful and vile person you actually are.

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