Submitted by rosesandkittens5 t3_z93thv in relationship_advice
Tldr; My son is not my husbands I’ve just realised this that my eldest isn’t his. I always knew it a possibility but now it’s all too real.
I’ve been with my husband for 8 years.
My son isn’t my husbands. I realised this recently when my son looks very similar to his other possible father and nothing like my husband or even me. Im scared my husband will realise now and am living in paranoia.
We have a 18 month old daughter too who is most likely my husbands and a son on the way so I have been faithful recently.
I don’t know what to do because I love my husband and our children but im also afraid and I don’t know what to do. The only other person I’ve told recently is my brother and he just said that if things go wrong I can always have the option to leave and go to him. I’m a stay at home mum so I wouldn’t really be able to move out on my own.
I really have no idea what to do which is why I’m on here.
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