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Flako2Smooth t1_iyf5roe wrote

Some tough love because this was me when this had happened to me. Block her on everything and move forward. Keeping her on social media will only hurt you and put you deeper in the depressed state you are. Once you block her you will sooner or later start picking yourself up again and continue moving forward. If y'all broke up it was for a reason learn from the mistakes you had with her and do better in your next one. There are millions and millions of women in this world why get so hung up for one who clearly moved on so quick

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-The-Gambler- OP t1_iyf7v0z wrote

Because if she moved on so quick then maybe she never loved me. Maybe no one ever has. Or ever will. Im sick of it all.

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Every-Ad8045 t1_iyf8bf4 wrote

Women can move on quicker than men. It's not about your character and depending on your age probably wasn't love in the way you would want.

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-The-Gambler- OP t1_iyf8gqv wrote

We're in our 20s and were together for over 2 years. We lived together.

If its not about my character I wouldnt be suffering alone.

Im sick and I need this sickness to end.

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Spaniardman40 t1_iyf653k wrote

They moved on, you should too. You are alone because you cannot come to grips with the relationship being over. Its time to let go and move forward dude.

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Honeybun204 t1_iyf7d2g wrote

I know how you feel , Been there done that. Block them on all social media , block all your common friends so you won’t see anything . Try to find a new hobby and focus on yourself ! Time heal . Take small step and one day at a time ! You got this op !!!

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Adequately_good t1_iyf5jjh wrote

Yup that’s rough. That’s what happens though, people break up and some time later they start new relationships. All part of the cycle. You’ll start a new relationship at some point, if you choose to (probably when you’re more content).

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-The-Gambler- OP t1_iyf5p7o wrote

No one wants me. Ive been all alone since the breakup. I workout with my buddy and hang out with some others but Im unwanted.

I cant eat. I just want to make it through the week

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Adequately_good t1_iyf6glx wrote

We’ve all been there. What you’re experiencing has been felt by billions of people before you and will be felt by billions after you (unless we kill the planet). Biggest gap between my relationships was 3 years, had a few dalliances, but I pretty much accepted id be single forever. At the age of 33 I found my perfect woman, and I was a better person from the past relationship experience.

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The_Cutest_Kittykat t1_iyf5t34 wrote

For starters block them on social media.

Secondly, hit the gym and get some exercise. The physical exercise helps.

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Flako2Smooth t1_iyf611v wrote

Oh and also don't start looking to love somebody if you can't even love yourself, None of your future relationships will work out if you can't even love yourself. Focus on yourself first King!

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wishiwaswithyou t1_iyf6lt7 wrote

Dude, this might be tough to hear right now, but if you hang in there for a little bit it WILL get better, and you WILL find someone else who loves you. Just give it time. Go do something to take your mind off of it, like spend time with friends. Try not to be alone too much while you’re feeling like this. That’s all I can tell you. I’m sorry you’re hurt.

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Quirky-Nature5291 t1_iyf8h9q wrote

Here comes the typical saying but truth… it will get better as time goes by as long as you let it. If you tether yourself to this pain, it will hurt more as time goes but guess what? They moved on.

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LifeOfHex t1_iyfbr6v wrote

Look here, you better talk to me about whats going on and we can talk openly about our mutual stories and see if we can help one another out.

Because I know the feeling and how absolutely destructive we could feel instead of trying to fix ourselfs to one day be better for someone instead of feeling like we need someone to make us better.

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