Sex down to 1/month

Submitted by CranknDank t3_z8rkit in relationship_advice

Struggling to build intimacy in our relationship. We’ll have sex maybe 1-2 in a week then nothing for a month. No foreplay, nothing. We’ve discussed it a lot but it just doesn’t change. We love each other very much, but intimacy is all but nonexistent. Ideas?

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Total_Eagle_7359 t1_iycvolc wrote

Happens to most couples. If you’re the guy , it’s because you’re not good enuf in bed and/or knowing when/when not to initiate. If you’re the girl, it’s because the challenge/mystique has gone. Logically Taking about it isn’t gonna help

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nashamagirl99 t1_iyel6v9 wrote

Scheduling sex works for some couples.

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Gosc101 t1_iycuzp7 wrote

You put consistent effort on your side so that you won't have to complain for lack of foreplay and whatnot. If they refuse to pull their own weight even then and you need more then then there is likely no other choice but to leave. You might just be sexually incompatible.

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