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N3rdScool t1_iyd8u8b wrote

Reply to comment by TheHunyBadjer in Is there any way to save my relationship after cheating? by [deleted]

I mean break up if you're unfulfilled... If he takes her back it teaches her nothing...

I really believe if she was going to prove it, it would have to happen after they break up to give him time to heal. They don't have kids and are not married, it just seems like a lot of work when dude could be happy and himself with someone else.

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TheHunyBadjer t1_iyd9svr wrote

Very true. But i don't know if it doesn't teach her anything, maybe after this time she feels like shit and she decides to actually change her ways. And if he really loves her and is willing to be with her as she get better so be it.

And are we sure he can do better? to stay with someone you know fucked another dude behind your back kind of makes you a loser. I know dudes who know they're getting cheated on but wont break up with them because they know they won't get anything better.

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N3rdScool t1_iydanty wrote

That last paragraph is so toxic I don't even know what to say to that lol

I do hope OP makes better decisions and I hope her bf finds someone who talks about issues instead of cheating. Maybe that will be OP XD

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TheHunyBadjer t1_iydb1et wrote

only hope. shit maybe the dude is mind fucking us all and is only staying with her for sex and until he kind find someone better.

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N3rdScool t1_iydczip wrote

Toxic toxic toxic lol maybe they deserve each other XD

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[deleted] OP t1_iye4jqi wrote

As stated in my post, he Hasn’t had sex with me in months.

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