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TyphoonCane t1_iycpa13 wrote

If she has stopped considering what you want from a relationship then it's time to end it. I wouldn't end it over this being a single instance of her giving the cold shoulder, but if it is part of a larger trend of her ignoring your wants then it's time to leave. Cooperation is a choice on both ends, and if you two aren't giving what the other wants then it's just time to stop cooperating.

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nintendoinnuendo t1_iycpl2z wrote

Over a hair cut, and some new clothes?

Seek help

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[deleted] OP t1_iycqaqe wrote

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Indecks9999 t1_iyct61a wrote

Than I would suggest bring those other issues up with communication. if there was something that triggered the change in her, you should let her know you would like to understand.

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[deleted] OP t1_iyctj7i wrote

Everyone should have the freedom to express themselves through their appearance, you can't ask for that.

However, you can ask for her to put more work into your relationship with smaller gestures of love. Or look up love languages and tell her that you want her to express her love through that. And of course do the same.

Just don't expect someone to change or wear certain things just to please you.

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