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stevencri t1_iyem4hb wrote

Your entire post was about this coworker. What about your partner?

How do you feel about your partner? Do you love them? Are you happy? Do you have kids/pets? Do you argue a lot? How is your sex life? Do you have plans for marriage?

Thinking that you’re “worried you might cheat” is pathetic. Have some damn self control. If you want to be with the coworker, then break up with your partner. If you can’t have the self control to keep your junk in your pants before breaking up then you’re pathetic

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Sad_Tiger_5068 t1_iyeq46e wrote

I deserved that one. But to answer your question I care about my partner as I grew up with them. So I agree this sounds like I don’t. I am just overall confused right now. I’m not happy in the relationship or in general. We don’t have either. I tend to let arguments go because it doesn’t ever end well & it’s not worth the fight. Sex life is all I know. So I’m not sure what a “good or bad” sex life is. But in general it’s boring & I usually need to get myself to climax. We did. They have been pushing them off & know I’m not happy about it. I am currently taking a back seat in their career. I respect it just don’t know if I can wait it out. Because I am constantly alone & not listened to. These are not reasons why I should be “allowed to cheat”. Questions are just being answered.

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interestingpitch33 t1_iyeqt3m wrote

Leave him then, don't hurt him. My ex did that to me and now I never want to see her again.

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Necessary_Sir_5079 t1_iyeu1ra wrote

You're already having an emotional affair. It seems you've already checked out and staying because you're comfortable. You know the answer.

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