Submitted by [deleted] t3_z92hyz in relationship_advice
MckittenMan t1_iyen2d7 wrote
Everything has been going well until you started developing feelings for someone else?
Call it like it is: you're emotionally cheating right now.
Do you want your reletionship to continue or not? Its really that simple of a question.
Yes? Then stop interacting with this dam person.
No? Then break up your partner.
This is incredibly selfish:
>The only reason I don’t want to break up with my partner is all the drama that would come with it. Hurting them, having to move out or have them move out.
I don't want to break up with my 8 year partner because it will complicate my life... well, you've already complicated it. Deal with it.
Sad_Tiger_5068 t1_iyeqwyq wrote
I agree that came off as selfish. It was more the drama it would cause both of us. & the complications it would leave them living wise.
MckittenMan t1_iyetnkp wrote
Well, you would would be ending a reletionship that someone invested their life into.
There is no real way to dodge the drama/complications... You just deal with it.
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