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Guilty_Hunter9304 t1_iyen0i8 wrote

From someone who's wife is more experienced (variety wise) than I was when we got together I think it's best for you to be open with him about your desires in bed and then let him take the lead regarding the pace that things go. Maybe just start with different positions, nothing crazy at first.

It might take him a good while to come around, but I believe he will eventually

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Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyesq2e wrote

Thank you, this gives me hope. I did try to communicate before, during, after...he just seems so shy when it comes to it.

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Guilty_Hunter9304 t1_iyet7q5 wrote

I can see that, since it is a very intimate topic, but with some conversation I very much think you guys will come to a place where you're both happy/satisfied.

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Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyevc6u wrote

Yes, I don't want to make him uncomfortable, but we're both pretty mature and reasonable people, so I want to give him a little push. Everything I tried didn't seem to work so far, and I am scared to cross the line because I really respect him a lot, and it seems that he respects me too.

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Guilty_Hunter9304 t1_iyevhzc wrote

Respect and affection are very helpful in situations like this. I think you guys will be good 👍 😊

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