Submitted by Dry-Bench-5845 t3_z94cmm in relationship_advice
Need advice, me and wife decided to call it off after 10 plus years. We have a daughter together (5 years old) and I am so stressed hurt and having extreme anxiety. She said that I was being cold and not showing her love and giving her attention the way she wanted. I told her I didn’t know she felt that way and that I apologize and wanted to change she said she didn’t feel the same way for me anymore, we tried working things out for about a week of me trying to show her love but she just pushed me away saying she’s done, so I decided to tell her to leave because I did not want to stay with someone who doesn’t want to be with me.. I love her so much and miss her and would love to make things work but idk what to do. After she left I kind of stayed strong and tried to not contact her other then when she reaches out and she has been reaching out more since she left. Asking about my well being and saying she has anxiety as well. Will she come back or what do I do I cannot take this anymore !!!
BinkoBankoBonko t1_iyexkbo wrote
> She said that I was being cold and not showing her love and giving her attention the way she wanted
This is probably a lie. She needed a quick excuse.
> saying she’s done
I'm sorry man. This is a very quick/abrupt ending seemingly. Doesn't sound like she wanted to try and make it work at all. Most couples with issues would go to therapy etc or you would've seen this coming. My strong guess is she has another guy and made some bullshit excuse.