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No-Yam1369 t1_iydfhp1 wrote

Well this post does make you an ass but a big or small one? Does it matter?

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throwaway0198283737 t1_iydfodb wrote

It kinda does. Like I said I love my girlfriend, she is really important to me but I’m starting to prefer bigger asses and this girl I’m talking to has one. I don’t know what to do.

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No-Yam1369 t1_iydgf7y wrote

I’m calling you an ass. This attitude towards people is not on. Please don’t objectify both of these people like that.

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slvstrChung t1_iyevnfx wrote

No you don't. Love transcends the superficial accidents of appearance.

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JakHammer9 t1_iydfonq wrote

Yeah don’t cheat on your gf.

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slvstrChung t1_iydgfaf wrote

>My question is how do I know what the right decision is ? I don’t wanna regret it at the end. Any advice ?

Decide what you would regret more. There is no right decision, there's only the question of what is right for you.

In my opinion, sex is just sex: having a partner that is slightly more aesthetically pleasing doesn't make a big difference. That said, this is both my opinion and something I've learned through personal experience. Without wishing to sound callous, it may be possible that you can't learn this lesson unless you also learn it by experience. It may be the best path for you to throw away a functional relationship in search of a big booty, and then regret it, because then at least you know where your priorities are.

And so ultimately that's my advice to you: whatever it is you decide to do, make sure you learn from it.

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3ThreeFriesShort t1_iydghq4 wrote

It's pretty simple: accept your gf for who she is, or leave because you would rather be with someone else. Both of these are valid life choices, its only if you try to do both that it becomes wrong. Leaving would be kind of shallow, and you might regret it, but relationships are voluntary.

I would examine the contradiction between "I love her" and "I really wanna fuck this other girl." One of those is false. (I am not talking about poly people, they exist -- but they enter relationships with that expectation not peek over the fence for the ass on the other side.)

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snakeplant34 t1_iydgkk0 wrote

Lol just break up with your girlfriend. She deserves better. Also you’re only 16, so you will probably not last anyway (especially if you’re having these thoughts already)

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bigred554422 t1_iydg5qx wrote

You don't love your gf if you having second and sexual feelings for another girl. My advise make you peace or dumb your gf and go have fun but dont be a cheater.

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throwaway0198283737 t1_iydh9s8 wrote

I can’t decide. That’s the problem and I think I might end up cheating which I also don’t want. Why does this has to be so hard man.

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wernercd t1_iydgijd wrote

Either keep it what's in your pants between you and your GF... or break up with her to get something else.

If you're not happy because of something superficial like an ass? You can't control what gets your motor revving... but you can control not being a cheater and a horrible person.

Either stick with the relationship and stop looking at other girls... or go chasing the other girls and break up with your GF on good terms - not after breaking her heart.

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MusicLava1983 t1_iydgqip wrote

DUMB TRUCK??????????? ahhahahahaha

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