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GlitterSmash t1_iyd09gy wrote

I say absolutely not - this is between you and your bf. Why is she somehow more trustworthy than him? If you 2 are going to work it out, contacting her is not going to be a positive move. He betrayed you, she didn't, don't make it her business.

Having said that, if it were me I wouldn't be still trying to work it out, cheating is a full stop for me.

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[deleted] OP t1_iyd117k wrote

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GlitterSmash t1_iyd6163 wrote

If you need an outside party to help you trust your bf, your relationship is already broke.

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SharpMarble147 t1_iyd8xf3 wrote

One of the weird things about a liar is that when you’ve caught them, it’s easy to ruminate and focus on trying to figure out all the truths from the lies. You have no need to contact her. He’s already proven than you can’t trust him

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