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My_2Cents_666 t1_iyclfxb wrote

Maybe try therapy? Either individual or couples. You need to unpack what’s going on with your sex life. You two are way too young to have no sex life.

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My_2Cents_666 t1_iycmifn wrote

I ask because if he’s just not willing then he’s telling you that your relationship is not worth the investment. If that’s the case, it’s probably time to move on.

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throwaway1946284 OP t1_iyclx8t wrote

I’m currently in therapy now (super cheap because I’m in grad school). It’s not very effective at the moment. I have expressed that I want to go to a sex therapist or couples therapy when we get into arguments regarding our sex life but he is not willing to pay for that right now.

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My_2Cents_666 t1_iycm3y6 wrote

Not willing or can’t afford it?

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throwaway1946284 OP t1_iycmkvb wrote

I would say not willing but using the excuse of our very limited budget right now. He spends money on other things so I know it can be done.

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My_2Cents_666 t1_iycm7nm wrote

I would get another therapist.

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throwaway1946284 OP t1_iycmp88 wrote

Yeah I agree. I’m currently on a waitlist for a sec therapist in my town. It’s been almost a year and she still has not opening. I’m also on a tight budget with school so my options are quite limited.

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