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throwaway1946284 OP t1_iyclx8t wrote

Reply to comment by My_2Cents_666 in Do I marry him? 5 years later and I (28F) am still unsure. by throwaway1946284

I’m currently in therapy now (super cheap because I’m in grad school). It’s not very effective at the moment. I have expressed that I want to go to a sex therapist or couples therapy when we get into arguments regarding our sex life but he is not willing to pay for that right now.

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My_2Cents_666 t1_iycm3y6 wrote

Not willing or can’t afford it?

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throwaway1946284 OP t1_iycmkvb wrote

I would say not willing but using the excuse of our very limited budget right now. He spends money on other things so I know it can be done.

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My_2Cents_666 t1_iycm7nm wrote

I would get another therapist.

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throwaway1946284 OP t1_iycmp88 wrote

Yeah I agree. I’m currently on a waitlist for a sec therapist in my town. It’s been almost a year and she still has not opening. I’m also on a tight budget with school so my options are quite limited.

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