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BinkoBankoBonko t1_iyel8aq wrote

> I saw that the gaydude sent him his pubic hair and told her he will f*ck her in the arse.

This stuff is really damn hard to follow. If she is getting pics of this dude's dick and he is saying "I will fuck you in the ass" to her that would cross a major boundary for me and I would instantly cut contact.

After 3 years you can ask to see her conversation IMO. If you saw "I will fuck you in the ass" you deserve some answers. Especially if he was a secret.

E: I will add. If she deleted everything I would consider the relationship over.

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Abject-Rent1395 OP t1_iyelphi wrote

She said he's just like that, that's one of the reason I want her to cut connections with him. I think that's kinda disrespectful to her. And she said the picture of the pubic hair is from Google, which I really doubt. What I can't believe is she can't block him even tho they just said his nothing just a co worker, it's gonna be weird if she blocks her. But she's only gonna work on site for a month then work at home again. I feel really weird about it. And she wants space she want me to give her space, after I tried breaking up with her.

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BinkoBankoBonko t1_iyem8b6 wrote

No. She doesn't need to block him. You need to ask to see the conversations. You saw enough to warrant answers.

He is talking about fucking her ass

She was lying to you by not telling you about him.

Don't feel weird. Get the answers you deserve. If she refuses or deleted everything it is over.

This is very odd.. how can you let her go to the guy's house and watch anime if you don't know he exists?

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