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Veridical_Perception t1_iyesrqr wrote

>He’s a great dad but she doesn’t do as much as me at all.

No, he's not. He's fun dad who does all the fun stuff, but leaves all the actual work that it takes to raise a child to you.

The petty side of me wants you to start whining back at him that he does nothing around the house, except whine. Whine about his not doing chores, not helping with the baby, not helping with the cooking. Just whine right back at him.

The rational side of me says that you need to sit down with him and have a real discussion about an equitable split of responsibilities. You mention you work full-time - does he? What does HE contribute to the household.

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EfficiencyFlat7726 t1_iyet971 wrote

He also works full time. My girl goes to nursery. He earns double what I do and he owns the house. He drives me completely insane. He works hard but I put a ton in at home and it goes unnoticed

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Lexotron t1_iyeshyg wrote

Counseling. You need to learn how to communicate with each other.

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