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S_EarthLy87 t1_iyenxid wrote

Then walk away get a lawyer draw up papers with him giving up parental rights. If he doesn't agree then get him on child support. He can't have it both ways. Get a paternity test once the baby is born to prove in court if you have to that it is his make your life with out him it obvious he has some issues and your baby doesn't deserve that. So do good by your child. Grow up a little and except you decided to be a parent. If not it isn't too late to put the baby up for adoption if you know for certain you can not give that child a stable healthy life. Good luck

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Pinkeyegirl t1_iyep9rg wrote

For your own sanity consider blocking him. Even if it’s only for a week or two to give yourself some space to think without interference. Decide what you really want. Whatever you choose, you have to be able to live with. It doesn’t matter what him and hid parents think of the situation or you. Bottom line it, it’s his baby and he owes child support if you decide to keep it. Xx

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Shibui50 t1_iyepxzx wrote

Isn't this like the third or fourth time you have posted?

I swear this Post comes up once a week.

I get it. You are pregnant and your guy is not nuts about whats going on.

Got it. Understood.

Now......what the F..K are you going to do? Whats your plan...........

other than applying for Child support from the Childs' Father??

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