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Logical-Wasabi7402 t1_iydcdkr wrote

What evidence do you have that he's not telling the truth?

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[deleted] OP t1_iydcg5r wrote

I don’t have any evidence to say he’s not telling the truth

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Logical-Wasabi7402 t1_iydchmj wrote

Then why don't you believe him

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[deleted] OP t1_iydclwa wrote

Been hurt before so I’m a bit scared

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Logical-Wasabi7402 t1_iydcoqr wrote

Has he given you any signs at all that he's untrustworthy

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[deleted] OP t1_iydcu3f wrote

He’s told the odd lie to reduce confrontation as we did have a few arguments in the beginning but he ended up telling the truth once we spoke each time, now we’re open with each other and the relationship is healthier

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Logical-Wasabi7402 t1_iydd1cu wrote

Okay that's not him being untrustworthy that's him being conflict averse. He didn't lie for the sake of lying, he lied because he doesn't like conflict.

Sounds like you have no reason not to trust him.

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[deleted] OP t1_iydd41v wrote

That’s actually really helpful, I’ll keep this in mind. Thank you.

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