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Yes.

What evidence do you have that he's not telling the truth?

Yeah, I'd just move on. I know I probably forgot to delete some apps after being with my partner.

Hell, even after deleting them, I still get spam emails from those sites. It's annoying as fuck.

I don’t have any evidence to say he’s not telling the truth

Then why don't you believe him

Been hurt before so I’m a bit scared

Has he given you any signs at all that he's untrustworthy

He’s told the odd lie to reduce confrontation as we did have a few arguments in the beginning but he ended up telling the truth once we spoke each time, now we’re open with each other and the relationship is healthier

I havent used the apps in 1+ years and I still get emails and so does my partner.

Okay that's not him being untrustworthy that's him being conflict averse. He didn't lie for the sake of lying, he lied because he doesn't like conflict.

Sounds like you have no reason not to trust him.

That’s actually really helpful, I’ll keep this in mind. Thank you.

I still have my accounts on dating apps tbh, i have not logged on them since i met my wife, accounts well i presume are still their, been about 10 years i think

Should be upvoted more, great advice!

It's only been a few minutes lol.

How come you didn’t delete yours? My partner didn’t when he first got with me, he just deleted the actual apps, didn’t even think to delete the profiles as he said he just met me and was happy. I asked if he would delete the profiles and he did though

Just never thought about it at the time till now, no real point for me, just leave um. No reason for me to go on a dating site and go through the hassle to figure out login credentials to delete the account, then the wife might see i tried signing into such sites, no reason for me to delete web history neither.

Yeah when you put it like that I see your point

If he has no activity on the account, your in good hands

A few minutes later and still not enough, should be 50-100 already lol

Yeah there was nothing, just old messages from before us

My advice too you is, dont doubt him, only if he gives you a reason too.

I hardly ever delete my emails, I have emails from years and years ago. Its not a big deal