Probably because you're not the least bit approachable. Just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean men are just going to fawn all over them. If I had to pick between approaching an 8 who looks friendly and has a nice vibe going on versus going after a 10 where they think they're gods gift to earth, arms crossed with a don't talk to me face, I'm going after the 8 every time.

Approachability matters.