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McSuzy t1_iydgxlq wrote

If this is the life that you want forever then there is no reason not to continue with him.

But can you articulate what it is about living with your parents and financing the lifestyle of a guy who won't work and didn't even get your some candy on Valentine's Day is so appealing that you want to sign up for 50 more years of it?

When I read that you are not bringing any more $ in from your cleaning business after doubling your staff I was going to push you on that point. Once I read the rest, it became clear that you are choosing to spend your life with an impulsive and irresponsible person who does not give two shits about you. In my experience, people who make the choices you are making will not listen to reason so I am not even going to try to convince you that you are being foolish.

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snakejazz57 OP t1_iydifm3 wrote

The reason I’m not bringing more money in is because people won’t pay more than what I’m already charging. I can totally see what you and my family are seeing, I just wanted to get other opinions on something like this. I’ve been feeling like breaking up with him for a while now, but it’s hard to let go of all the other parts of our relationship that are perfect, but I also want to do what’s best for me, I could honestly live the rest of my life alone and be happy. Thank you for the advice.

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