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Glintstone-Jedi t1_iybbo42 wrote

As a bi guy...

This is going to matter alot more to you when you have kids and you want to teach them that how you are is normal and he wants to teach them that how you are is an abomination to God.

Yall made it work until this point, likely against the odds. He wants to pretend this part of you does not exist. You don't.

You're not rational. Its love, love is irrational. But you're actively trying to allow love to overrule your judgement. And point of order here, he is not. You are the more invested person here. Like you said, he doesn't want you passing your gay ideas or genes onto his children.

This is over. When you admit that to yourself is kinda up to you, but the longer it takes the more damage you'll do to yourself in the end.

P.S. If one of your kids is gay he's going to blame you and file for divorce and shun the not straight child.

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[deleted] OP t1_iybe5hi wrote

Your right. I know subconsciously I’m already aware of the fact. The future I imagined would be ruined if I stay with him… but part of my future involved him and I don’t know how to let go of that. I’m not saying that I’m considering staying with him, in fact, I think as soon as I bring up the topic later he will definitely break up with me but I’m fighting the urge to just say sureee I’m straight just to appease him and go back in the closet.

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