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[deleted] OP t1_iybbzkh wrote

Reply to comment by BelmontIncident in Fiancé wants to breakup because I’m bisexual. by [deleted]

The thing is, and I’m mad at him for it— the way he reacted when I first told him was so positive and accepting. In general he’s a kind and accepting person. I’m still holding out hope that he’s joking and would hope he wouldn’t turn away or reject our kids.

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BelmontIncident t1_iybc9jj wrote

It's not funny. Are his jokes usually bad?

If you want to be sure, you can try directly asking him what happens if your son brings home a boyfriend.

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[deleted] OP t1_iybdi2t wrote

Honestly, yes. He once joked that he was actually racist, and I was really mad about it, close to breaking up with him, then when we sat down to talk about it, he goes, “wait, you thought I was being serious?”

Now having known him awhile, I’ve realized that that’s just his attempt at humor, whether it’s just because he’s from a different culture or is a genuine sociopath who just says things for shock value… I’m not sure, the culture thing is just easier to accept. I sound so stupid I know.

I’m going to have to ask him about it later.

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