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Big-Entertainer6424 OP t1_iyc4mdn wrote

Reply to comment by MelkorTheWicked in Thoughts on a man sending crying selfies when you want to leave him? by Big-Entertainer6424

Not sure if you read the whole post. He’s literally stalking my friends list and begging them for help. He also contacted someone on my video game list with the same ish.

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MelkorTheWicked t1_iyc4wzb wrote

I read it but that doesn't change the response about him expressing his feelings. You should still end the relationship.

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00Lisa00 t1_iyc5j64 wrote

This isn’t just expressing feelings. This is contacting pretty much everyone she knows to try and get others to buy into his stalking. Because that is what this is. It isn’t just expressing feelings it’s obsessive and could turn dangerous

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MelkorTheWicked t1_iyc5r0q wrote

It could be stalking or it could be the desperate attempt of a man in love. I told her to leave regardless

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Nectarine_smasher t1_iyc5ujo wrote

He's not expressing his feelings, he's pulling the victim card in an attempt to guilttrip OP back in a relationship through her friends, pure manipulation and toxicity

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MelkorTheWicked t1_iyc63nh wrote

How the hell do you know? Are you in that relationship? Do you know the person in question? You have one side of a story, I am simply saying it is possible that it is a desperate attempt to salvage a relationship. People are so narrow minded and quick to jump to negativity.

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Big-Entertainer6424 OP t1_iyc51hv wrote

Yes you’re right about the feelings part

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MelkorTheWicked t1_iyc582o wrote

Don't get me wrong, the behavior can definitely be viewed as manipulation but as they say, a drowning man will clutch at a straw.

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