NYCstraphanger t1_iydmbn0 wrote on November 30, 2022 at 4:52 PM

The dude wants you so bad. Guys don't do things like this to be a good person. He is very interested in you. the question is, are YOU also interested? Women have intuition when it comes to attraction. Women can tell if a guy is coming onto them. He is trying new things because of you, he is checking out your ass, he is volunteering too. He wants you. It is good your bf doesn't seem to care but if he loved you he would ask questions at least. Maybe ask, do you also like him? Good luck.

PatientLettuce42 t1_iydqgb5 wrote on November 30, 2022 at 5:19 PM

this is a pretty sexist and sadly also braindead statement. Guys don't do things to be a good person? Women have intuition about attraction, but men don't? Do you think every man in this world is oblivious and don't realise when a woman is interested in them?

> It is good your bf doesn't seem to care but if he loved you he would ask questions at least.

You should not frequent this subreddit any longer with quotes like that.. geez.

NYCstraphanger t1_iydt6zl wrote on November 30, 2022 at 5:36 PM

Puhleese, it's not sexist. The dude wants to get in her pants. Of course men have intuition but we are talking about her. Stop trying to make an issue about something I didn't say. Stay on topic.

NYCstraphanger t1_iyev12q wrote on November 30, 2022 at 9:38 PM

Oh so attack me for having an opinion. You are not a mod so stop being so delicate with other people's opinions and suggesting I not frequent this sub.

Of course guys do nice things for the sake of being nice but this guy is going out of his way to do so and checking out her posterior. So um, ya, he wants her. Furthermore, of course both men and women have an idea if someone likes them but this is a coworker so it can be a mixed bag to tread lightly upon.

I have been on this sub for years and literally nobody has ever been offended by my advice. Not until you so kindly fuck off. Have a good day.