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Jankaobezjanka t1_iyc7nkf wrote

You do realise that's rape right. No concent no action. Just stop, think about what u did, and apologise.

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handydandy2020 t1_iyc7nls wrote

No. He said NO. Jesus Christ do you realise that guys get morning wood when they need to piss as well? Also, you're not entitled to take what you want from him. He said no. You ignored him. That is sexual harassment/rape.

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Altruistic-War-5860 t1_iyc83j9 wrote

Are you a troll? If you not , you are a rapist. That was rape. No means no.

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theuselessadultv2 t1_iyc84oy wrote

I'm going to point out what everybody says here- this is rape. He did not consent. Not only did he not consent, but he said no outright. I'm amazed that you don't see how fucked up what you did was. Get therapy and leave that poor man alone.

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markbrev t1_iyc8jhv wrote

MORNING WOOD IS NOT A SIGN OF BEING TURNED ON. You sexually assaulted him as the law stands in the U.K., but as others pointed out you’ve basically raped him and admitted to it. You don’t respect his boundaries an you obviously don’t respect him as a person or a partner. Just in case you missed it NO MEANS NO.

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No_Rice925 t1_iyc8pi7 wrote

Not cool. You raped him. He said no before and when you woke him up. I'd be surprised if he didn't break up with you.

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adele__ t1_iyc8y9h wrote

You raped him.. doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship. You did it without his consent and when he woke, he told you to STOP which you failed to listen to. Morning wood doesn’t matter, every guy wakes up with one. If this was the other way around, he would be getting slaughtered for it. I hope he breaks up with you and reports you

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SomeJokeTeeth t1_iyc91pa wrote

I feel like sex-ed classes need to start including the fact that morning wood doesn't equal horny. Troll or not, there are people that genuinely believe that random morning boners MUST mean that the guy is horny and ready to go.

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Lucavious t1_iyc949i wrote

This is a troll guys. Don’t take the bait.

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adele__ t1_iyc95vg wrote

Replying to [deleted] (#798,936)

Injury doesn’t matter, what you did is still rape. Tbh with the way you are commenting it feels more like you are just a troll. Nasty troll to say shit like that.

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Dont139 t1_iyc9ebd wrote

Try reversing the genders to realize you should be in jail

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False-Mail-940 t1_iyc9n0g wrote

Replying to [deleted] (#798,828)

I don't think you realize the seriousness of what you have done.

Imagine that one of your (GIRL)friends told you: "He went inside me and started having sex with me till I woke up. I was upset and told him to stop but he didn’t. He ended up finishing inside me."

What would you say to your girlfriend?

Just because he's a man doesn't mean your boyfriend can't say no. Just because he is hard in the morning when he wakes up doesn't mean he wants to. No means no.

You raped your boyfriend, and your only problem is "How do I get him to do it (again)?". Wow. Girl, you have some serious issues, and it's about time you learn the meaning of "consent".

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feet4ears t1_iyc9na8 wrote

He refused because you RAPED him. You don't love him if you could abuse and inflict that severe level of trauma on him. I think your wording and justification is disgusting, you need help. and I hope he finds the courage to leave you, he's probably terrified that a loved one did this to him, I hope your boyfriend heals from this.

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NoseyOsprey t1_iyclqij wrote

Everybody chiiiiill lol this is obviously a troll. Everything about this screams for attention. Even if she was ignorant and woke washed enough to not realize how hypocritical and self centered this is she (if it's really a she) wouldn't have phrased it like that. This person's been fishing for attention ever since daddy went out for cigarettes back in 92. Option 1, this is a dude and he most certainly typed this with ghost, gangly white knuckles poking through fingerless black cotton gloves that match the rest of black antifa starter kit he's rocking. Except for the dirty, dollar store boxer briefs that failed the sniff test a week and a half ago when he turned them inside out. He's just goten back to moms basement from the BLM highway blockage so he can microwave some off brand pizza bites and impersonate some nypho teen girl that obviously needs life advice and to have her front hole welded shut like a Chinese apartment complex during zero covid lockdowns. It's most likely the girl that made fun of him in middle school for crying after she thought he was a goth girl and asked him for a tampon in home room. He's not sure if it's the crying or the visualization of her calling him a "little bitch crybaby" that he's needed to cum for the 10 years since then because both of those things have accompanied every one of the pocket lint sized ropes he's been throwing 3 times a day into his mom's old couch In the basement he calls his "APARTMENT" LOL

OK OK Option 2. I'm wrong.. not only am i wrong and she did it , but she asked the question genuinely and unaware of what she was in fact saying. So generations upon generations have forgone the path of least resistance and delayed gratification in the braudest version of the saying. They took the job with the benefits and made the bed because thats what you did. They cared about what aging parents thought and as those parents aged more, the rolles reversed and they cared for those that cared for them. Note to the young readers, i dont mean that they got uber eats for mom and dad or gave them a ride to bingo.. ASSES GOT WIPED. It's not really an act of service until shits involved and make no mistake kidos, shit is a constant theme in life and its only for the brief middle part that we can clean it up ourselves. As for the parental assholes, you wiped them, because thats what you did. They had plenty of flaws, of course, as every group in history, no matter how pure their intent.
But they also believed in this ever evolving way of life enought to go to war for it. They fought for what was right, as what was right became clear to them, and they changed course when mistakes had been realized.They fought overseas, sometimes for a belief that while our system isn't perfect, it's the bright path forward that would allow us to shape our own future and provide us and the generations after, the chance at a life never known to any people in recorded history. They fought here, amongst our own towns, farms,and families. Sometimes against ourselves. All of that fighting and sacrifice. All of that adversity and steadfastness in the face of uncertainty. What drove it? I think it was driven by belief. Belief in a way of life that was moraly, politically, religiously and financially sustainable. Not perfect, but a place of religious freedom that is morality driven. A place where our elected officials had been in service to us, not the other way around. And a place where if I chose to exercise self control, not do certain things that I've been told since my youth will hold me back in life, and be willing to take risks when necessary while working my dick off. Then I would be successful.

Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times. G. Michael Hopf

I was reminded of the quote above when asking myself what this person I'm responding to (really it's to the readers of the post that crusty gym sock wrote) must be like? What must they believe? How must they view the world to have the perspective they do? I belive in equality of opportunity, not equality of outcome. I believe that nothing is free, everything's a tradeoff. I know this doesn't sound like it has anything to do with a self centered single mom of three to be, that is too ignorant to realize she's a rapist as described by the same nonsense ideological movments she blindly endorces and supports without a thought or interest in the effect that it will have on society as a whole. Buuuuuut, some really strong men and woman created the safest, wealthiest society that gives the most disadvantaged amongst itself, more economic mobility and chance of success then anyone in history or even undeveloped modern day peoples could imagine possible. Our poverty stricken object to the amount they received in EBT and cash relief on a smartphone! This is the softest, most entitled generation in the easiest time to have ever lived. No words in any number of languages could convey the level of incompetence or uneducated arrogance that has been allowed to spread through society because we're afraid. Afraid of being rude or offending anyone. My heart sinks as I try to imagine the depth of the struggle that would be created by the totally imaginary individual that would have to exist in order for the rapist that feels neglected to be real and actually want the internet opinion on how to help her out if this situation that she feels like she's been wronged in.

My moneys still on it being the troll of an antifa fingerless glove model that's currently learning that cinnamon chapstick is only an exceptable substitute for materbation lubricant until it gets in the urethra. That's when he'll really regret spending his last $11.74 on that sweet 'SILENCE IS VIOLENCE' sticker for his skateboard instead of classing up moms basement a bit with a bottle of Astroglide.

I digress... I think. I was gonna edit this to make it a little cleaner when I realized how long of a ramble I went on, but it's 4am and nobody gives a fuck so just deal with it like this poor guy has to deal with that sociopath dumpster fire of a girlfriend. 😘

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