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Redd_81 t1_iyekm8g wrote

Maybe you can avoid Noah sabotaging your marriage by being honest with your husband.

You know, that thing you SHOULD'VE been doing right from the start...

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adisturbed1 t1_iyelgr8 wrote

So you did cheat and are afraid of the consequences?

If this isn't fake I hope your husband does find out. Poor guy.

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themanfromUNCLE100 t1_iyegyb7 wrote

> Once things started getting serious with my husband I stopped talking to Noah as much and didn't see him.

You didn't cut off contact with Noah when you met your husband. You were still seeing Noah while talking to your husband. Does your husband know that part?

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themanfromUNCLE100 t1_iyehqj6 wrote

So you were sleeping with Noah and your future husband at the same time. Did you sleep with Noah after you became exclusive?

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themanfromUNCLE100 t1_iyeiv2e wrote

So you did cheat and Noah is telling the truth. The fact you broke it off later doesn't change the fact you cheated.

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Suspicious-Barber163 t1_iyek5fv wrote

wow, that sucks but I totally hope he succeeds cause this whole marriage is a lie 😂

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themanfromUNCLE100 t1_iyeka3b wrote

Poor fellow. Tell your husband everything. If Noah has proof i guess it would be time stamps of text messages you've sent during that period. Before you think why should you do understand you lied to your husband, been unfaithful to him. And he has been nothing but good to you.

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rmichalski t1_iyem15i wrote

Don't you think your husband should know that you cheated on him? Shouldn't your husband be able to make a decision whether to stay with you based on all the relevant information-- like the fact that you cheated on him with Noah?

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laserox t1_iyelrcg wrote

You have to get ahead of it and tell your husband the whole truth. Then look into filing harassment charges if Noah is still pestering people.

But this is a "reap what you sow" kind of situation, so there isn't going to be an easy quick fix.

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