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NorthernLitUp t1_iy9261h wrote

What you do for your wife is promise that you will take a step back from this "friendship" with your "best friend." Drunk or not is no excuse. And who is putting pressure on a married man to cheat with a coworker? Because anyone who does that is an awful person that you should definitely not be partying with.

Your "friend" was out of line and the price of that is a step back from the friendship. Your wife come first. Full stop.

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throwaway0192737373 t1_iy937of wrote

Yeah sure I could go a bit less contact with my best friend until my wife calmed down. We both fucked up and there is no excuse.

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NorthernLitUp t1_iy93cx4 wrote

Not until your wife calms down. This should be a permanent step back. Your friend does not respect your marriage

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throwaway0192737373 t1_iy94jzr wrote

She apologized. She is also my best friend, I can’t just end our friendship over a mistake.

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Yummy_Yummy20 t1_iy962pw wrote

The priority is your wife. You don't get to have a '' friend'' that gets drunk, bites your neck, and completely disrespect your marriage and wife. You cut her off or your marriage will probably be toast.

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