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throwaway0192737373 t1_iy93bws wrote

Reply to comment by FashionSuckMan in I’m married and my best friend sat on my lap. What now ? by [deleted]

That’s a bit too much. It’s not like we had sex or something. It was a stupid mistake. I will have less contact with her for now.

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SelectPost1601 t1_iy93sa9 wrote

Are they really a friend if they disrespect your marriage boundaries? Seems to me like you don’t want to let go… yikes getting fishy here.

Also drunk or not, sitting on your lap and biting you was way out of line. Seems like your friend group is childish and trashy. Change that or lose your wife dude. Up to you.

Baffling how adults act this way. Your poor wife.

Best of luck to you.

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[deleted] OP t1_iy93wls wrote

She put your marriage at risk, she knew it would hurt your wife, yet she did it. Why are you defending her?

Alcohol is no excuse, drunken actions are sober thoughts.

A real friend would tell the people pressuring to do that to "back off, this is my platonic friend and he is happily married"

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FashionSuckMan t1_iy93if7 wrote

You're gonna have to just talk with your wife about it but it seems like she's gonna be pretty insecure with you hanging out with that friend. Insecurity a bitch

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EmperorSkyTiger t1_iy97lvq wrote

Not just a bitch, it's a pernicious poison. Broken trust is a very difficult thing to rebuild.

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svifted t1_iy958vy wrote

I do not think you really came for advice as you refuse to accept that if someone does not respect your marriage and your wife you need to cut contact.

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