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You should ask for something.......a divorce

Yeah a divorce!!

Divorce get out of there and find somebody who respects you

GTFO of there my friend. Aiming for a retroactively open relationship as some form of reciprocity after having your trust repeatedly violated can not end well. I suggest cutting your losses and trying to find someone who will respect your boundaries and be honest with you.

You should run. Then she can live her one sided "open" relationsship and you can have fun and find someone who respect your boundaries.

Omfg leave her before you catch a serious std

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LMAO, so she cheats and the compromise to "fix it" is that she fucks whoever she wants but you don't?

Of course she's lying now, she has literally never stopped lying and cheating. The compensation would be to GET THE FUCK OUT, DUDE

Dang she’s having it easy

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She's not going to change either you leave or hang in there with hope she'll change.

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How do you expect others to respect you when you have none for yourself?

You hand a knife to a maniac and seem surprised they do not stop stabbing you.

Blow up her wretched life by ensuring everyone knows what her word, her vows, and her promises mean. Find a shark lawyer and get what you can from this sorry period of your life. Stop being a fool, you cannot convince the leopard to change their spots painting them as stripes instead. You will still get mauled.

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Might as well open your marriage

end the fucking marriage, you dimwit

Ask for a PS5 dude.

I know what you should ask for! A divorce!

You need to see a doctor to check on your spine and your testicles because something is clearly missing if your considering staying with this woman

A divorce will balance it out

If this is real, you are pathetic.

yes, you ask for a divorce

Leave? I mean she's repeatedly cheated she's going to continue to cheat even when opening the relationship up its only on her side? Selfish and then can't even be honest about it. Your better off without her

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Why are you staying with a serial cheater who has no respect for you?

Dude do you see what your saying divorce her. Wakeup she's not going to change and if you really can't deal with it divorce.

If you wanna be petty open up the relationship and find somebody who actually accepts you cause she certainly don't.

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