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Submitted by [deleted] t3_z944aa in relationship_advice

To add onto what I posted earlier. Here we’re early signs that I thought my boyfriend was cheating. He would come home and take a shower which he would never do he would sit in the bathroom for a bit. Everyday he came home from work. He talks about this affair going on at work but, I think it’s him having the affair. I never know when he’s coming home. Always a wonder. He now gets dressed at work which I think is weird. I had asked him well how do these people cheat. He says “ at work in the porter potty “ or “ car “. We used to have this life 360 location app which we can track where we both are but, sometimes I would see him in odd spots. Another thing is he’s been yelling at me a lot for the most littlest things. Everytime I accused him of cheating he would say he wants to leave me. Is that a sign of guilt? There’s just so many signs. I need some advice.

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EvenOrchid6345 t1_iyewbtj wrote

This relationship is bad. You don't trust him, he's yelling at you and threatening to leave...it's a mess. You'd be happier without this drama.

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[deleted] OP t1_iyewh1m wrote

Right just to spice it up I’m a lot younger than he is and I’m going through this. He’s 32 and I’m 19.

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EvenOrchid6345 t1_iyf3dyp wrote

Wow what a surprise. Jk, it makes a lot of sense why he thinks you would believe his bullshit. He thinks you're a dumb baby, undeserving of respect and consideration. Are you packing yet?

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[deleted] OP t1_iyfdfoa wrote

Funny thing is all of my stuff is pretty much still packed. I’m thinking about it. Cause it’s stopping me from doing what I want and he mentally drains me.

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