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Kooky_Independent656 t1_iydix47 wrote

The way he sees it is that you already had plenty of time...8 years worth of time...you don't do something real quick then he will end it for good

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angryliltoast t1_iydk0oo wrote

I know. He wants to. I’m fighting for us. I don’t know what to do. He’s told me he’s mentally checked out but I can’t just let it end. We bought a house together this year. We’re engaged.

I don’t know if a big gesture today is the right thing to do or not. I don’t know if he’ll accept it. I need some serious advice. He’s mentally checked out but emotionally he still has feelings for me. I know we both love each other and I know we can work if he’s able to give us another chance.

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Kooky_Independent656 t1_iydkbxl wrote

Give it your all. Be present for him. He is checking out because you are not there...be there for him.

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