Sad_Entertainer6312 t1_iyew3h1 wrote on November 30, 2022 at 9:45 PM

Reply to comment by Objective-Shoe-1437 in I find it hard to respect my significant others when they tell me stories about letting themselves be treated disrespectfully by [deleted]

I think what you're getting at is that you don't understand how someone would go back to a person who treated them like shit.

What typically happens is that people remember the good stuff and block out the bad shit that happened. It's usually a self worth or self esteem issue.

Objective-Shoe-1437 t1_iyewszv wrote on November 30, 2022 at 9:50 PM

Yes exactly, I understand it being a self worth issue. And no judgement to that, everyone is prone to it. Again, relationships/flings/etc. are not logical and can not be rationalized as a such.

But recognizing that it was so bad and so low and then just bringing it up later in a very fond light, especially repeatedly is just a lot for me.

Sad_Entertainer6312 t1_iyexvwd wrote on November 30, 2022 at 9:57 PM

I don't understand why they are telling you this shit. In any relationship I've had no one has ever gone into that level.of detail. The most graphic share has been that they weren't fond of doggy style as a previous partner pretty much only did that one position as they liked to be dominant