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If you have any self-respect then you will divorce him ASAP

Think self-respect is at the top of my list of my problems right now he has made me feel so awful about myself I can't get the awful thoughts that I'm not good enough and maybe this is the best it's going to get for me

Your body just built and birthed an entire human being!! You are strong and amazing! Look at your baby and find the strength to put this man in your past.

Don’t let your husbands poor behaviour define you . You are strong and beautiful and you have just created new life . Difficult as it may be you and your child deserve so much better .

You need to leave this man op. Don't do couples counseling. Do counseling for yourself.

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Nah this ain't about you it's about him being a piece of shit. Absolutely end it and find a better life without him.

Talk to your friends and family about it!! They will tell you you deserve better!! Hopefully until you belive it!!

This has absolutely nothing to do with you. He cheated or at least tried to, that’s on him. He couldn’t handle being faithful, he couldn’t handle his own desires, he couldn’t handle himself. That’s not on you. This is a reflection of him and who he is. You deserve better and there is better out there

I think the exact same thing.

What he's doing is not your responsibility and that aso should not provoke you to question your confidence. I'm really sorry that happened to you, but it's his doing, it has nothing to do with you. I think you should talk to him and see the reason behind and definitely tell him how you felt when reading about it.

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